Tumblr (3.0; @iicoo)http://iicoo.tumblr.com/<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/539493b9ca83227586c45dc15c9e1170/tumblr_mjp0fzQGUX1qmvbmro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/45408897354http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/45408897354Fri, 15 Mar 2013 04:19:11 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b88220f39413b375749ac8b8f63c61d7/tumblr_mjoz8ygUS11qmvbmro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/45408244528http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/45408244528Fri, 15 Mar 2013 03:53:22 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3940c8acd8a8149d9f30c366601758d1/tumblr_mjbsfxX0zS1qmvbmro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/44840782060http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/44840782060Thu, 07 Mar 2013 23:57:33 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e48dadaca0297b278c707cd615138eb8/tumblr_mh38ffTq6D1rqpa8po1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://exp.lore.com/post/41284772468/the-academic-interest-in-shame-and-other-emotions" class="tumblr_blog">explore-blog</a>:</p> <blockquote><blockquote> <div> <div> <p><em>The academic interest in shame and other emotions of self-consciousness (guilt, embarrassment) is relatively recent. It’s part of a broader effort on the part of psychologists to think systematically about resilience—which emotions serve us well in the long run, which ones hobble and shrink us. Those who’ve spent a lot of time thinking about guilt, for example, have come to the surprising conclusion that it’s pretty useful and adaptive, because it tends to center on a specific event (I cannot believe I did that) and is therefore narrowly focused enough to be constructive (I will apologize, and I will not do that again).</em></p> <p><em>Shame, on the other hand, is a much more global, crippling sensation. Those who feel it aren’t energized by it but isolated. They feel unworthy of acceptance and fellowship; they labor under the impression that their awfulness is something to hide.</em></p> </div> </div> </blockquote> <p><em><a href="http://nymag.com/news/features/high-school-2013-1/">Why You Truly Never Leave High School</a></em> – fantastic read, citing the work of <a href="http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2010/11/08/brene-brown-tedx-houston/">vulnerability researcher Brené Brown</a>.</p></blockquote>http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/41366328076http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/41366328076Thu, 24 Jan 2013 11:53:23 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnw0s7gBir1qmvbmro1_r1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>noodle for summer!</p>http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/7284834326http://iicoo.tumblr.com/post/7284834326Tue, 05 Jul 2011 21:16:13 -0400noodle